Story of courage

I recently met and befriended a young woman, “Susan,” whom I greatly admire. She shared with me her story, and it is one of great courage. She has given me permission to share her story (but not her real name) with you.

In college, Susan was the victim of date rape. She was emotionally devastated by the incident but afraid to report it. The man was very popular on the campus, charming and well-liked. She feared that no one would believe her, and that would only deepen her emotional trauma. With the encouragement and help from a very good friend, though, she did finally report the incident. When it came out, the initial response was mixed. Many supported her, but others did not believe her. Eventually, though, other women that the man had victimized also came forward. They, too, had feared coming out with the truth, but when they stood together and gave all their stories, the pattern of his behavior was undeniable. He faced very real consequences for his actions, and Susan told me that all of the women who testified said that, difficult as the process was, they found a peace that they had not known before. They felt a certain release, and were relieved to finally know that he could not harm more women.

I admire Susan and all women who find the strength to stand up for themselves, even when it is painful and difficult. She is now working in a place where she helps other women find the strength and support they need to take charge of their lives, especially when it means taking risks and naming truth.