This morning, during our commute, while I’m still waiting for the caffeine jolt from the 6 a.m. coffee, my daughter’s brain is in full gear. An excerpt from our conversation:
Aliyah: I want to be the president when I grow up.
Me: Why do you want to be president?
Aliyah: So that I can make rules.
Me: What kind of rules do you want to make?
Aliyah: To make countries stop fighting each other.
Me: That’s a good rule.
Aliyah: And I heard that there are still slaves. I don’t want there to be slaves.
Me: No, neither do I.
Aliayh: Also, some people think that basketball is just a boys’ sport, and that’s wrong.
Not a bad platform, really. Her top priorities are peace, human rights, and equality. Listening to the news, reading politicians’ speeches, and looking at how I spend my own time, these don’t seem to be the top priorities for many.
Buzz phrases like, “bring to justice,” are mere euphemisms for vengeance, and I rarely see peace, wholeness, and healing as even desired outcomes. There is a sense of satisfaction in watching thieves led away in handcuffs, and our nation celebrates when we kill our enemies. I admire organizations and individuals dedicated to reconciliation, but also wonder why this isn’t the standard operating procedure for all of us.
Slave traders, though, do need to be brought to justice, or at least shut down. There are many fighting this good fight, but not nearly enough. Today there are more slaves in the United States than there were before the Civil War. Why do we tolerate this? If we deployed as many resources in addressing this as we do fighting illegal immigration and undocumented workers, would the problem still be so looming?
Ah, and the forever present sexism alive and well today, both subtle and overt. It was tears of shame, anger, and confusion that welled in my eyes when trying to explain to my daughter the lack of women in politics. Another piece of this morning’s conversation:
Aliyah: We haven’t had very many women presidents, have we?
Me: We haven’t had any.
Aliyah: What? But why not?
Me: Well, for about the first 150 years of this country’s history, women weren’t even allowed to vote.
Aliyah: That doesn’t make any sense. Why wouldn’t they let women vote?
That’s a tough one. Although the nonsensical can sound sensible in adult discourse, it is difficult to explain intolerance, narrow-mindedness, and bigotry to a child. It just doesn’t make sense to her.
My hope is that it never does, because if fighting, slavery, sexism, and racism never make sense to Aliyah, she will indeed make a very fine president.
